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Hierarchy or Equality? What does it matter?

I recently had a discussion with my husband concerning God's order and hierarchy. We discuss the equality of husband and wife. Of course, he believes that just as there is a hierarchy within the Trinity itself, that there is also a hierarchy within the marriage. I am, in no way, equal to him as my husband. Imagine my disappointment when I found out that becoming a wife meant that I am now a second class citizen to my OWN life! So, of course, I ask... does that mean I am inferior? because I am female? NO (I was so relieved to hear), apparently I am not inferior... he is just greater (just as the Father is greater than the Son). Therefore, I am to be subject to him and to obey him (just as Jesus did only what He saw the Father doing). What it boils down to is... he has the final say, and I must obey (even if I believe he is wrong - or going against natural law). I know many people go along with this, so why can't I just get with the flow? Some days it is unfortunate t...